Grrr so annoyed?

Im so annoyed i met this guy at a party a couple of weeks back we started chatting he took my number at the end of the night then we have been texting an meeting up since i really like him. Tonight i have been straight an have asked where i stand he wants to be just shag buddies, im not a slag an wont do that. Why cant i just meet someone decent? Everyone im interested in are either taken or just want then its see ya later grrrr will i ever find a bf who wants a proper relationship?